Yesterday after I fed the mini's Toby was eating on a hoof bit from the Apr 11 farrier visit; then he went over to visit the neighbors, I called him a couple times about 1/2 hour apart before they must have went inside or whatever, and Toby had come back to our yard and was ready to come in. It is sweet that they don't mind him coming over. A couple weeks ago they texted me a picture of Toby hanging out with them while they were relaxing with their solo fire pit and I walked over after I fed the minis and I got a weird vibe, felt like they were not happy that I invited myself over to join the dog and them. They did chat with me for several minutes until they had to go pick up the kids from the church activity group; and I guess if they were really not wanting to be around me they would have said they had to leave right away and would have just taken a scenic drive before picking up the kids, but I did get a vibe of "we didn't intend to invite you by showing the dog over here"
few days later P.S. Neighbor just texted the whole group about buying a small bale of hay for doing petting zoo at their church in a couple of weeks. It's great, another neighbor that is not keeping horses at home anymore has one to sell her. Just feels odd; in the past they normally would have asked dad, or dad and me first. Wonder if they will borrow a trailer from another neighbor as well? I have no idea what I did or am doing to make them want to avoid me, which sucks; don't know if there is something I should apologize for, or if I run my mouth too much when I'm visiting, which I try to avoid but I don't always realize I'm not letting other folks have time to voice their thoughts or some totally random thing that is not even on my radar.
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